Faith vs Works.....

I can't decide which group is more Irritating on the subject of recompense for Heinous Action(s)(I include Commuications as Actions)...New Agers or Christians.
I oft anger my newage aquianences by being "pissed" at something that they've said or done to me that was insulting, injurious or just rude. After all, hey point out, if it wasn't done with "Negativity" in mind, it's y problem, not theirs.
Then there are the Christians. Sometimes, I don't even get an Apology. If I bring it up they tell me that Jesus has Forgiven them and that's that.
In both cases the "Screwed" is,well.....
And neither can't Understand why I don't "Forgive" them and consider ME the Bad person. Truthfully, this is a big reason why I've let pretty much all of my Conservative non-Heathen friends go the last couple of yrs. I'm not Needy Emotionally enough anymore to "Put Up to Get Along". Chuck and I are fine,enjoying our Lives with or WITHOUT folks who dump their Responsibilities on us. Luckly, Weird's a BITCH and doesn't care who or what your Spiritual Carrier is....
Cheers,
Pat