Update.....

Chuck's pretty much where he's going to be until the next Stroke. Still can take care of his self but has little to no Short term Memory. Home Health is in with PT to help his Walking and Weakness and Psych to help with his Panic Attacks and the new one, Error Fury. If something, no matter how unimportant doesn't go right the 1st time, he throws a tantrum. They have some Ideas to help and are in contact with his Doc.
In my case, VERY GOOD. The surgery was a success and with the exceptions of movement and weight lifting restrictions everything is better than it has been in more than 20 yrs!
Brother came by this week and we've got basically an act friendly(as opposed to being friends which as far as I'm concerned we are not anymore) mode going on. Really don't want to see his wife again. Ever, I'd be happy with....
Cheers,
Pat