Friends....
May. 27th, 2009 11:26 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mdehnersA thing about friends, like family is that you can love them even when they're/have been eejits. I have a friend who, like many of us here is a big fluffy bunny. Expects "The Universe" basically to follow her around granting her every wish. Rejecting the general culture and it's mores. No "boring" convenional relationships, jobs etc.
So, her kids have mult "Baby-Daddies" and her financial support comes from the state and the only father who is and she had a conventional relationship. This "Bastard" supports her and the other kids, not from his "donations" with Child Support and Health Insurance....
Well, he's watched all this, his kids not schooled and her endless train of "Unconventional" boyfriends(the type who generally support themselves off their "Old Ladies" with a side job of Dealing....)and has decided to take his and one of the other kids that he didn't Sire but was born when they were still married, cutting her support. The Bastard! Her live-in loser BF on his 2nd yr of Joblessness And newest baby daddy) now has to "help". He'll be gone pretty quick....
I used to make Polite Noises. I used to offer advice. Now I just love them and let them be.
Some folks never "Get" that the Universe wasn't Created simply to please them. It doesn't give a shit about you personally. YOU have to make your own Way with what's available and to me, if you consider others resources(instead of help), things don't work out very well in the long run....
Truth,
Pat
So, her kids have mult "Baby-Daddies" and her financial support comes from the state and the only father who is and she had a conventional relationship. This "Bastard" supports her and the other kids, not from his "donations" with Child Support and Health Insurance....
Well, he's watched all this, his kids not schooled and her endless train of "Unconventional" boyfriends(the type who generally support themselves off their "Old Ladies" with a side job of Dealing....)and has decided to take his and one of the other kids that he didn't Sire but was born when they were still married, cutting her support. The Bastard! Her live-in loser BF on his 2nd yr of Joblessness And newest baby daddy) now has to "help". He'll be gone pretty quick....
I used to make Polite Noises. I used to offer advice. Now I just love them and let them be.
Some folks never "Get" that the Universe wasn't Created simply to please them. It doesn't give a shit about you personally. YOU have to make your own Way with what's available and to me, if you consider others resources(instead of help), things don't work out very well in the long run....
Truth,
Pat
