Closet Cases...
Aug. 23rd, 2007 12:17 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mdehnersI Hate “Closet Cases”. I’m also not all that Happy when they finally DO “Come Out”, esp. after the age of 25. Why? Because of the damage these bastards and bitches do(though usually they are bastards…).
Unless the Family comes from Money, the usual reason is religion and this makes their crime worse, IMO. They get married to “Save themselves” at an early age. The wife, usually as or more religious thinks she is “Blessed” with the perfect husband. In fact, her “sisters in Christ” will tell her so. He doesn’t “bother” her, stays home, works hard and is very active in their church. In fact, it’s almost like he’s a “best girlfriend”. If she as any doubts, her religious Beliefs will be used against her to maintain his deception…
When they do finally come out, they leave ruined lives behind. Their wives, their kids and yes, even their own. You see, their Emotional & Sexual development stopped when they went into the Closet. Teens for most, younger for Catholic Religious. Even if they wanted to, they can’t “relate” with their contemporaries, not for yrs, if ever. Their wives have to “deal” with the fact that they wasted usually decades of their lives and that their social skills are seldom beyond high school….limiting their functioning in the smaller “pool” of available Singles in their age group.
One that Gay and Lesbian folk have to is that of the Active Enemy. The old saw about “Scratch a Homophobe, scratch a Closet Case” is often true. It’s even worse for couples. After all, you’re what they gave up for “Cheezits”, a Happy, full life and NOTHING Pisses them off more. The God(dess)es help you if you have one of these with Power over you. As far as they’re concerned, they did what’s Right and it’s not fair that you’re Happy in your “Sin”. You must PAY….
Troth,
Pat
Unless the Family comes from Money, the usual reason is religion and this makes their crime worse, IMO. They get married to “Save themselves” at an early age. The wife, usually as or more religious thinks she is “Blessed” with the perfect husband. In fact, her “sisters in Christ” will tell her so. He doesn’t “bother” her, stays home, works hard and is very active in their church. In fact, it’s almost like he’s a “best girlfriend”. If she as any doubts, her religious Beliefs will be used against her to maintain his deception…
When they do finally come out, they leave ruined lives behind. Their wives, their kids and yes, even their own. You see, their Emotional & Sexual development stopped when they went into the Closet. Teens for most, younger for Catholic Religious. Even if they wanted to, they can’t “relate” with their contemporaries, not for yrs, if ever. Their wives have to “deal” with the fact that they wasted usually decades of their lives and that their social skills are seldom beyond high school….limiting their functioning in the smaller “pool” of available Singles in their age group.
One that Gay and Lesbian folk have to is that of the Active Enemy. The old saw about “Scratch a Homophobe, scratch a Closet Case” is often true. It’s even worse for couples. After all, you’re what they gave up for “Cheezits”, a Happy, full life and NOTHING Pisses them off more. The God(dess)es help you if you have one of these with Power over you. As far as they’re concerned, they did what’s Right and it’s not fair that you’re Happy in your “Sin”. You must PAY….
Troth,
Pat
