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[mdehners]

Went over to see how the folks were doing. Mom didn't want company last night. Too much stimulation. She's doing better today. Sad but worrying more about Gary so she'll be fine as long as she has someone to "fuss" about. Hopefully we can get him to move out here since he really doesn't have anyone now. Technically he has his wife but she has Alzheimer's and her family wasn't really happy about her marrying a White guy and has basically kept him away ever since he started to take care of Terry. I personally don't think they were in love but just friends who didn't want to be old alone. Funny how you never realise something until this sort of thing happens. I hadn't realised how much those two had Influenced my WOrld View. As a kid I had a ring seat to what Extremes brought. Terry, the Wild CHild never met a Drink, Drug or Vice he didn't try. The ultimate "Peter Pan" who never thought past his next paycheck, drink or fuck. Gary, OTOH the prefect Citizen who had two girlfriends and one marriage in his life, who remained loyal to his company until they layed him off a
yr before Retirement. They incidently taught me that the middle way was best and if there wasn't a path to make one. Debauchery and Abstenence are silly lifestyles both leading to Unhappiness....\Truth,
Pat