Why they Hate us.....
Nov. 9th, 2008 08:04 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mdehnersMy next door neighbor of 8 yrs is a nice lady. We helped here when her husband Passed and have Donated our garden's bounty to her church group. Along with her Obama placard was one supporting 2nd Class Citizenship for us.
I Think a big reason is her daughter and those like her in the Black community. When your examples of non-Hets are diplicitous at best and dishonorable at worst...little Positive work can be done. Her daughter is of the Female version of "The Down Low". She has relationships with women but every yr or so she'll see some guy until she gets Pregnant and then go back to her girlfriend. She's never worked a real job for very long. Even though she has a more accurate example of GLBT-folk next door, her daughter's Behavior is what comes to mind when she hears "Gay Marriage". Esp. since she does most of the childrearing while her daughter goes off whereever. We havethe Male equivalent in my support group. He's a MSM, not Gay, not Bi....whatever that means. Funny, in my mind if you are fukk'n both sexes you're Bi...but that word is too closely associated with Gays so being Bi is WRONG, being a Het that likes to have sex with guys is FINE. Still don't get it.....
THOSE are the examples most in the Black Community think of when they think of "Gay Marriage". Hardly surprising that they Hate us at 70% of their population....unlike only 50% of Euros. 'Course, it's their community. I don't see why we should be Punished for your Vargr...
Truth,
Pat
I Think a big reason is her daughter and those like her in the Black community. When your examples of non-Hets are diplicitous at best and dishonorable at worst...little Positive work can be done. Her daughter is of the Female version of "The Down Low". She has relationships with women but every yr or so she'll see some guy until she gets Pregnant and then go back to her girlfriend. She's never worked a real job for very long. Even though she has a more accurate example of GLBT-folk next door, her daughter's Behavior is what comes to mind when she hears "Gay Marriage". Esp. since she does most of the childrearing while her daughter goes off whereever. We havethe Male equivalent in my support group. He's a MSM, not Gay, not Bi....whatever that means. Funny, in my mind if you are fukk'n both sexes you're Bi...but that word is too closely associated with Gays so being Bi is WRONG, being a Het that likes to have sex with guys is FINE. Still don't get it.....
THOSE are the examples most in the Black Community think of when they think of "Gay Marriage". Hardly surprising that they Hate us at 70% of their population....unlike only 50% of Euros. 'Course, it's their community. I don't see why we should be Punished for your Vargr...
Truth,
Pat
