Minor Rant.....

[mdehners]

Yes, I'm your friend. I've Listened to you for a long time and Honestly am probably the only friend you have left who will BUT:
It's time to grow up and learn to stand on your own two feet....at least Emotionally. I realise you love to "chew old soup" but when I've heard it more than I have digits both North and South of my Equator,I Feel I've done my part, esp. when any suggestion I've given FOR the Complaint has been IGNORED.
I admit, I'm very much a "Guy" in that I tend toward Feeling that Problems Need Fixing, not just repeatedly complained about for,in some cases DECADES.
By saying this I'm not being a BAD FRIEND. If anything, maybe me switchingthe subject enough times will make you wonder enough to maybe realise that the Emotional Validation for, what I'm Feeling is "Wallowing" will be lessened and maybe you'll do something about IT, or just Accept that something that happened maybe decades ago truly is, after this long a time something that happened to two different people by your life experiences(at least I hope so;>!)...
BTW, this is to some folks in Mid and Cybergard, none active posters on my journal. It's my Vent;>. Though if you think you've resembled one of them(and who hasn't at least at some part of their life...though hopefully the earlier part;>), well, the advice goes. Even for me.
Cheers,
Pat

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[ngakmafaery]

...my physical body is predominantly female, but I am completely with you: if it can be fixed, friggin DO IT, AND IF NOT, JUST GET A BETTER ATTITUDE AND LEARN TO DEAL WITH IT...

[mdehners]

What triggered my rant was a local person who YET AGAIN was going off on their mother's child-rearing practices,which were SOP for the time period(1950's), esp those in the Catholic Church. I finally got tired of it and pointed out that she probably wouldn't do the same if it were today(or even the 60's;>). After all, I pointed out, "we don't have separate water fountains anymore either...."
Cheers,
Pat