With Age...
Feb. 13th, 2019 01:45 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mdehnerscomes a lot of krap;>! One of the few"good Things" is that you tend not to feel the need to "Justify" yourself to the world as much. I've spent most of my life "justifying" my Sexuality, Spirituality, etc and just don't have the Energy anymore. Don't really give a fk anymore both how people see me AND if they're just plain being "eejits".
Even 15 yrs ago I wouldn't but today I just let folks be folks.....Stupidity and all. Part of it is realizing that you did what you could for _____(fill in the worthwhile cause of your choice;>) and it's now the turn of others to "step up". The big problem is dealing with the realization that your Work was not near enough AND being ok with it....instead of "wallowing" in Despair. And most days I'm OK, though a good "wallow" sometimes is kinda therapeutic;>.
Cheers,
Pat
Even 15 yrs ago I wouldn't but today I just let folks be folks.....Stupidity and all. Part of it is realizing that you did what you could for _____(fill in the worthwhile cause of your choice;>) and it's now the turn of others to "step up". The big problem is dealing with the realization that your Work was not near enough AND being ok with it....instead of "wallowing" in Despair. And most days I'm OK, though a good "wallow" sometimes is kinda therapeutic;>.
Cheers,
Pat
