Clif Notes.....

[mdehners]

So, while I was in hospital Chuck had another Stroke. Instead of taking him to the ER my brother did nothing except freak out and call Protective Services. At this point I'm released from hospital still a lot of PAIN. We are not given the number(and somehow SPS was given the wrong number for us). Being efficient they found the right one and contacted us. At this point Chuck and I thought he was going to be forcibly removed. The Inspector disavowed this and said she would test him as whether he needed forcible removal or whether help could be given to keep him home as long as possible. We were quite relieved until the day when my brother and his wife made it clear they wanted him GONE. The inspection went well and he's getting a number of programs to be sorted and assigned on the 7th. My SIL is calling me "selfish" and my brother? who knows. At present I don't think we're going to lose the house or anything like that but I personally don't think family outings are a good thing for awhile.
This is bringing up a shiteload of old tapes from the 80's with sick friends and their thoughtless relations. Some things never change and once again reinforces my Trust Issues with non-alt.rel Hets.
Probably for the rest of my life.
Cheers,
Pat

Comments

[weofodthignen]

Oh man, I am sorry. Is Chuck doing any better now that you're back and the crisis with soc. services is over? Are you? I'm glad soc. services were sensible. I really hope your brother will become so.

M

[mdehners]

I think a lot of this is his wife and a plan she probably came up with when Chris told her how wacked out Chuck was. Place Chuck, buy a house with a "mother-in-law suite" and sell ours.....or move us to some "Q" stronghold area. The last email from him sounded more pleasant but I'm not going to Trust them without a large Siberian Saltmine;>.
So much for relaxing retirement....
Cheers,
Pat

[arlie]

I'm so sorry. This is so wrong.

[mdehners]

I got a message from my brother which basically called for a "time out"(for what I don't know) and not to contact his wife. Not a problem. It's hard to keep up a pleasant relationship with one of those "Q" folks who Believes Trump is the Messiah.He DID end it with "love" which he normally doesn't so I'm hoping for the best....from him. Sandi's emails remind me of those about a decade before when I wasn't supportive of helping her manipulate my brother into moving to Sedonia(back in her new-age period).
Luckily, we actually have the state and federal gov't on our sides(can't believe I can say that;>!) even to help us relocate if Sandi decides "it's them or me".
As long as Chuck and I can stay together until we really can't is all that matters to me....
Cheers,
Pat