Resolutions......
Dec. 27th, 2025 10:49 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mdehnersReally haven't done them since the 80's. Usually, I do a couple projects per yr(Physical, Mental, Spiritual) but this New Year I think I might. It's something I've been thinking about for a couple yrs...."Grey Rock" to my brother and my SIL.
Chris isn't awful, he's just one of those people that feels to need to be Right/Better/etc and he's getting worse as he gets older. Anything I say has the potential to diminish me. Sandi is Sandi. If she's not Gaslighting me she's talking down to me. There are times that I look forward to being ill enough to go into CAre.
None of it's really bad individually but mult times a week? Gets OLD. Today was typical. She came storming in to my apt to lecture me on how she had to rescue a birdbath they gave me last yr because I didn't bring it inside. Silly me, thinking a birdbath wasn't a seasonable item. So she dragged it in, dipping muddy water and leaves into the house. Considering how many times a yr I fix their garden problems since neither of them can grow anything beyond plants that can survive in a businesses landscaping? Like I used to tell Chuck, it's part of the rent for something way over our budget as I se it.
Just give them no to little ammo.
Cheers,
Pat
Chris isn't awful, he's just one of those people that feels to need to be Right/Better/etc and he's getting worse as he gets older. Anything I say has the potential to diminish me. Sandi is Sandi. If she's not Gaslighting me she's talking down to me. There are times that I look forward to being ill enough to go into CAre.
None of it's really bad individually but mult times a week? Gets OLD. Today was typical. She came storming in to my apt to lecture me on how she had to rescue a birdbath they gave me last yr because I didn't bring it inside. Silly me, thinking a birdbath wasn't a seasonable item. So she dragged it in, dipping muddy water and leaves into the house. Considering how many times a yr I fix their garden problems since neither of them can grow anything beyond plants that can survive in a businesses landscaping? Like I used to tell Chuck, it's part of the rent for something way over our budget as I se it.
Just give them no to little ammo.
Cheers,
Pat
